If you’re a medical student or just starting out in healthcare, here’s a reality check: even after years of studying and training, the learning doesn’t end when you finish med school. Experienced doctors say that real-life practice is full of unexpected lessons, many of which they wish they had learned earlier. Here are a few takeaways from veteran physicians that could help you prepare for what’s next:
1. It’s Okay Not to Know Everything
It can be overwhelming to feel like you’re supposed to know it all. According to Dr. Shoshana Ungerleider, the key is curiosity, not perfection. Be willing to ask questions and embrace collaboration. Medicine isn’t a solo act; learning from your team — whether it’s other doctors, nurses, or specialists — strengthens patient care.
2. You’ll Take Your Work Home with You
Being a doctor can be emotionally intense, and difficult cases will stick with you. Dr. David Lenihan notes that reflecting on your day can deepen your empathy and resilience. While it’s natural to worry about decisions you made, this process can lead to growth and better future outcomes.
3. Self-Care Is Non-Negotiable
Burnout is a real threat in today’s fast-paced healthcare system. Dr. Drew Remignanti stresses the importance of prioritizing your mental, emotional, and physical health. This might mean setting aside time for exercise, hobbies, and connections outside of work. Remember: if you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t be there for your patients.
4. Don’t Rely Solely on Tech
While medical tech is a fantastic tool, Dr. Daniel Opris warns against becoming overly dependent on resources like the UpToDate app. Using tech is helpful, but remember to draw on your knowledge and experience. Each patient is unique, and their care isn’t always a “textbook” case.
5. Partnering with Patients Can Be Hard — But It’s Vital
Sometimes, patients may choose not to follow your advice. This can be frustrating, but as Dr. Opris reminds us, every patient has the right to make their own choices. Being a successful doctor means building partnerships, understanding your patients’ perspectives, and helping them make informed decisions — even if it’s not the path you would choose.
If you’re heading into medicine, these are just some of the lessons ahead. Remember: lifelong learning, self-care, and compassion are just as important as the knowledge you gained in med school.
